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Counseling practice & relationships

Narrative practice: externalizing & re-authoring

Develop an externalizing conversation into a preferred identity account.

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WHAT YOU WILL WORK THROUGH

  • Develop an externalizing conversation into a preferred identity account.
  • Connect unique outcomes with values, relationships, history, and accountability.

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The essential idea

Study narrative practice through a model-specific formulation, an evolving fictional case, and applied decisions. Use the worked example before attempting the original practice task and separate case quiz.

BUILD THE REASONING · 01

Identity stories select some events and silence others

Narrative therapy examines how dominant stories organize experience and identity within relationships and wider discourses. A problem-saturated account such as “I am a failure” can select confirming events and overlook actions that express other commitments. The therapist takes a decentered but influential stance: the client is the authority on meaning, while questions deliberately open neglected possibilities.

Externalizing separates the person from the problem without denying its effects or the person’s responsibility for action. Use language the client accepts; an elaborate problem name is not required. Map how the problem influences life and how the person has influenced it, then explore the client’s evaluation of those effects and reasons for that position.

BUILD THE REASONING · 02

Thicken the alternative instead of offering a compliment

A unique outcome contradicts or complicates the dominant story. Explore what happened, how it became possible, what the action stood for, when that commitment appeared before, and who might recognize it. Link events across time into a preferred account with enough detail to be believable.

Re-authoring is not replacing “bad person” with “good person.” It develops a richer story grounded in actions, relationships, and values. Letters, documents, or an invited witness can support continuity when the client wants them and consent/privacy are addressed. Accountability for harm remains concrete: effects, responsibility, repair, and future choices.

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Decision lensWhat to examineImplication
Problem story“I always abandon people”Map where the story came from and what it causes.
Unique outcomeStayed with a friend during a hard appointmentExplore action, values, history, and witnesses.
Preferred accountA developing commitment to reliable careIdentify a next action and how it will be recognized.

BUILD THE REASONING · 03

Stories have material conditions

Narrative work attends to gender, culture, racism, disability, class, and institutional authority without assuming one discourse explains every person. A story about failure may be reinforced by actual exclusion; changing language cannot alone remove that barrier. Ask what practical resources or collective responses are wanted.

Dulwich Centre sources are substantive developer/training accounts, not a uniform body of randomized evidence. The approach can generate useful questions, but its effects must be evaluated for the specific practice and context. Do not substitute a pleasing identity label for the client’s own meaning or assume one unique outcome disproves all difficulty.

FROM CONCEPT TO DECISION

Rin and the “unreliable” story

FICTIONAL CASE

Rin, 25, calls themself unreliable after missing a volunteer shift during a flare of chronic illness. Rin recently coordinated remote help for another volunteer but says remote contributions do not count. The organization prizes physical attendance.

  1. Externalize and map

    Rin chooses “the never-enough story.” Explore its influence and the organization’s narrow contribution standard.

    “When never-enough judges the remote work, whose definition of contribution is it using?”
  2. Develop the unique outcome

    The coordination expressed care and ingenuity, with a history of similar acts. Ask rather than assign those values.

    “What mattered enough that you found another way to help, and who has seen that commitment before?”
  3. Link identity and action

    Rin names dependable care as a value and chooses to negotiate an accessible role. A brief self-authored note records examples and intentions.

    “How would a role built around that commitment differ from proving you can always attend?”
What the case shows

The alternative story gains detail and a practical expression. The case also requires an accessibility response, not merely a more positive self-description.

MAKE THE REASONING YOURS

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4 case-based questions. Plausible choices. Feedback that explains the distinction.

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Best references

These readings deepen the specific models, evidence, and decisions in this lesson.

  1. Carey & Russell: Externalising—commonly asked questions

    Study externalizing as a contextual stance and a route toward preferred identity stories, not merely changing pronouns.

  2. Dulwich Centre: About narrative approaches

    Connect identity, power, collective work, and the person’s relationship to a problem.

  3. Michael White: Externalising conversations transcript

    Read the originator’s separate teaching discussion; link for study without reproducing its training material.

KEEP THE TAKEAWAY

Connect unique outcomes with values, relationships, history, and accountability.

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